Envy
Envy is sad or resentful covetousness towards the traits or possessions of someone else. This sin was the inspiration behind the first murder — Cain killed his brother because he coveted the favor God showed Abel. As stated in Proverbs 14:30, “envy makes the bones rot.” If you think that’s a hint as to the punishment awaiting the envious in hell, you’d be wrong.
Your punishment for a life of envy is to be immersed in freezing water forever.
Wisdom About Envy
Men are so constituted that every one undertakes what he sees another successful in, whether he has aptitude for it or not.
Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe
The spirit of envy can destroy; it can never build.
Margaret Thatcher
To live without comparison is to remove a tremendous burden.
Jiddu Krishnamurti
Jealousy is invariably a symptom of neurotic insecurity.
Robert A. Heinlein
Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind.
Buddha
No one can have all he wants, but a man can refrain from wanting what he has not, and cheerfully make the best of a bird in the hand.
Seneca
Virtual Antidote: Kindness
Kindness is the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate. Kindness breeds cheerfulness or affability, as St. Thomas Aquinas affirms.
Ways to Practice Kindness
- Smile!
- Share with others what you have.
- Seek out the lonely and forgotten people around you and listen to them.
- Hold the door and allow others to enter first.
- Do not interrupt and be polite in your word choice.